WHITNEY'S

October 2011--Part II

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JASPER TURNS TWO--Oct. 30, 2011

JASPER-BOY'S SECOND BIRTHDAY EXTRAVAGANZA (WEEKEND)

Halloween Train--Victor, NY

Our little Woody ...

Carving Pumpkins with KiKi...

Losing interest in the pumpkins and just acting funny...

The BIRTHDAY loot...

Feeding the birds...

Coloring with cousins...

Blowing out the candles...

Halloween Night :

The fire dept. drives around the neighborhoods. Jasper was in heaven that they let him sit on the fire engine!

And some much needed rest with his cars after the long weekend.

It's hard for me to believe that Jasper is already two. He never fails to amaze us with his funny candor and knowledge about EVERYTHING. He is a smart, independent, sensitive, fun, obedient, loving, intuitive, faux-hawk sporting, absolute ALL BOY. Love this kid to the ends of the galaxy and back. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE MOST AMAZING BOY EVER!!

October 2011--Part I

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We took TONS of pictures in October! This is one of my favorite months of the year--the beginning of fall and festivities and, of course, Jasper's birthday! We also had a special visit from PopPop this month. This post is the first half of the month.

FUTURE DPT JASPER

Daddy caught this salmon on Lake Ontario.

Looks like it just may eat my little boy!

Nothing says "COOL" like sunglasses and an old man's fishing hat!

I wonder who won the staring contest--the donkey or Jasper.

TORONTO CANADA with POPPOP!

Ontario Science Center

Toronto skyline

MEDIEVAL TIMES!

POWERS FARM with the cousins and PopPop

MENDON PONDS--Feeding the birds

Ruby is showing Jasper how to hold the food in your hand so the birds will land and take a nibble. The nibble was not such a nice sensation.

September 2011

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NEW YORK STATE FAIR--SYRACUSE, NY

JASPER IS A GOOF OFF

PITTSFORD LIBRARY TIME WITH SOPHIA AND AUDREY

(He didn't want to hold hands)

"I STUCK"

LOVE AFFAIR WITH HIS HAT

(It only lasted a day)

August 2011

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August was a nice, warm month filled with lots of fun for little Jasper-boy. Forgive me. I am getting to the August post in November. Hmmm. How time has slipped away from us!

JASPER ON HIS BIG BOY POTTY

Not hardly potty training yet...but loves to sit and think about the day he will!

PARK AVENUE FESTIVAL

The only pic I took there but it is by far the funnest festival in Rochester!

GOOFY IN MOM'S GLASSES

I swear there is an old cartoon character who looks like this--squinty eyes and all!

STONEY BROOK STATE PARK

One of our favorites.

GIFTS FROM STEVEN'S CLINICAL INSTRUCTORS

Jasper always gets all the cool stuff.

NAKED IN THE FRONT YARD ON A WARM AUGUST NIGHT

Need I say more?

SUNROOM FUN WITH BEST BUD KIKI

LAST BUT NOT LEAST...DRUM ROLL PLEASE!!!

JASPER IS GOING TO BE A

EFFECTIVE APRIL 20, 2012

(It's obviously late enough in the pregnancy now that this picture need not be postponed any longer)

July 2011

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July...where did you go? It seems like this month came and went in a flash. There are so many fun things to do in Rochester. I wish I had my camera everyday. Unfortunately, I don't. Here are some tidbits of our lives in July.

This is my favorite picture of Jasper in July. We were at Powers Farm petting the animals. My little Jasper was more interested in the flowers! He looks so thoughtful to me. More of Powers Farm further down...

SENECA PARK ZOO

Jay Jay is inside the turtle shell. Jasper was looking for him.

Water fun at the zoo.

4th OF JULY (my fave)!!

Penfield Parade

Dinner with my husband lakeside at Conesus Lake!

MORE 4th OF JULY IN BRIGHTON

Jasper loved the big slide with his daddy.

Train rides with his best friend Sophia. Jasper thought he was so cool. Love his wave!!

I can't even count how many times Jasper rode the train. He cried when he got off and had to go back for more. The train took all the tickets we had!

EVERYDAY LIFE AT THE WHITNEY HOUSE

CORN HILL FESTIVAL

WEARING MOMMY'S FEDORA

My kid will not wear a hat to save his life! Unless, of course, it belongs to Mommy

MONROE COUNTY FAIR

The three little monsters

ICE CREAM CHAMP

HILL CUMORAH PAGEANT WITH THE WILLIAMS CLAN

POWERS FARM AND PETTING ZOO

ONE MORE HAT (THIS TIME DADDYS BIKE HELMET)

Jasper keeps getting more fun by the hour. He is full of his own little personality and laughs at anything and everything (just like his dad). He talks and talks and knows so many words--too many to list. He is constantly saying things to surprise us. Instead of saying "no" he insists on saying "elp me". It sounds bad when he is refusing to leave from someplace and Mommy has to carry her child out while he's yelling "elp me! ELP ME!!!" I'm sure people think I'm kidnapping him. He knows his alphabet and can identify any letter you point to and loves to read letters on signs in the grocery store or at the doctors office. Jasper can spend HOURS (and I mean hours) putting puzzles together or coloring. He adores trains and cars and trucks. He can run faster than I can blink which keeps me on my toes 99.5% of the entire day. Life doesn't get any better than little Jasper-boy!

June 2011

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The month of June got us back on schedule and back on track after an absolutely crazy month of May spent in Utah! It's nice to be home and make some fun summer plans. Here's what's been going on in our lives in the month of June:

JayJay's Birthday Party

Jasper, JayJay and Sophia--these three are best buds

Jasper and Sophia get silly around each other because they have a childhood crush!

Family Pictures at Nazareth (Steve's school)

Jas is wearing the same shirt because pictures and the party were on the same day!

My adorable family!

Feeding the ducks at Perinton Park

This is almost a nightly practice in Rochester. There are ducks and geese where ever you go. We have learned to put stale bread by the stroller for the ducks!

First Swimming of the Summer--Brighton Swimming Pool

Taughannock Falls State Park and Cayuga Lake

The water fall has a 215 ft drop with a 10 ft splash

The riverbed was as warm as bathtub water so we could walk the entire trail up to the falls in the river!

This is the park by the falls and right off Cayuga Lake (one of the many finger lakes)

The lake was closed to swimming for a thunderstorm.

But most of all...HAPPY FATHERS DAY TO DADDY!

May 2011

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Lots of happenings in the month of May! Fun times spent in UTAH!

Critters in our own backyard in Rochester

Jasper with his best friend Ki-Ki (or CiCi as he pronounces it). These two are the best critters of all!

UTAH

Fun at Utah's Hogle Zoo

Memorial Day spent with Grammy Sue

PopPop's Wedding

Cousins flew in for the big day

Dad and Barbara--the happy couple

A Day out with Thomas the Train at Heber Valley Railroad

Riding in Grandpa Lenny's new toy

Nothing beats a Dairy Keen sherbet!

Notice that Jasper is wearing his jacket in most of the pictures--let's just say May was COLD in Utah!

It was an eventful month to say the least! Jasper and Mommy went home to Utah and spent the entire month of May. Although we were there FOREVER there was lots to be done. We celebrated Grandpa Lenny's 50th birthday. WE said goodbye to our beloved Malamute, Haida--she was nearly 15 years old which is almost unheard of in "big dog" lives. Mommy found treasures of Grammy Sues that will be cherished forever. Last, but not least, PopPop got married! Home again, home again. Time to get the summer rollin' in Ro-cha-cha!

April

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Wheelchair Jasper

Daddy had to pretend to be in a wheelchair for a day. I would say Jasper had more fun than Daddy did!

Breakfast with the Mr. E Bunny

Easter

March 2011

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March was a busy month for us! I think this month may be an indication of busy summer days ahead (we hope).

Happy Birthday Grammy Sue!!

I love this picture of Grammy Sue's big brown eyes. Jasper has big brown eyes too!

Sending birthday wishes to Grammy Sue in Heaven

Dinosaur exhibit at the Museum of Science

Baseball Hall of Fame in Cooperstown NY

Strong Museum of Play with Pop Pop and cousins

George Eastman House Museum with PopPop

Niagara Falls NY with Pop Pop and cousins

Nap time in the stroller

The falls from the American side

Could PopPop's grandkids be any cuter?

We are so inlove with the thought of spring. Jasper is on the run and I can only imagine how much trouble he will get in over the summer!

February 2011

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I must first apologize for the pictures of Jasper with funky hair. Pictures usually happen after nap time when his 'hawk just isn't looking right.

Here's our Jasper-boy!

Such a little poser...

and a true artist too!

Cleo makes him happy...

But red ink on his hand makes him mad...

He loves to swim...

and hang poolside...

At a place full of fun and massive slides!

He's our Jasper boy...

Messes and all!

BUT WAIT!

January 2011

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Jasper in January--

Strong Museum of Play:

Favorite flavor: Lime. Loves lime chips, limeade, and lime yougart.

Favorite color of the month: Red. Points to anything red and says "red"

Tooth count: 15!!

Walking status: DRUMROLL PLEASE...Nope--no walking yet!

Words:

Mama

Dada

Boon (balloon)

Ba (ball)

Red

Espa (Jasper)

Oss (off)

Sounds:

Moo

SSS (for snake)

Roar (for both lion and bears)

Uff (for dog)

Ack (for quak)

Signs:

drink

snow

dog

fish

fan (he made his own sign for this)

15 Month Checkup:

Length: 32.5 inches--80%

Weight: 24 lbs--50%

Head: 47.5--60%

December 2010

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The GOOFIEST kid you'll ever meet

Such a little faker--he's not really asleep

Not A Big Santa Fan...

...but how cute is that face?

MY FIRST HAIRCUT

-before-

-after-

STILL ROCKIN' THE 'HAWK

SLEIGH RIDING

CHRISTMAS

SLEDING...

SNOW ANGEL...

BEST FRIENDS

We had a wonderful Christmas season both in New York and in Utah. It was fun to spend time with family and friends! Jasper wasn't feeling the whole Santa thing this year and seemed more impressed with paper and boxes than with his presents. He gives the season a whole new feeling and it's fun to see him experience the traditions of the holidays that we love. Merry Christmas!

November 2010

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Just some pics from November...

So over baby food...this was my last attempt.

Crazy hair for a crazy boy

THANKSGIVING

Village Christmas Tree Lighting

Halloween weekend and the BIG first birthday!

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ONE YEAR STATS:

Weight: 21 lbs 9 oz--35%

Length: 31 inches--75%

Head: 46 cm--40%

I'm still long and skinny!. Everything checked out good at my one year checkup. I have to see a hand surgeon for my crooked birdie finger (you can see it in the picture above). I didn't get any shots because I was on antibiotics when I went so I have to back soon to get them.

My first haunted hayride. I was mesmerized!

MY FIRST BIRTHDAY PARTY--Oct. 29, 2010:

Cousin Ruby by the witches brew (homemade rootbeer)

Monster, Pirate and Witch

All the crazy spooks that came to my spook-tacular birthday party!

My cakes...banana split flavor! The big one is for the guests and the small one is my smash cake

Love the frosting!

I got over the mess of my smash cake and chose to eat my Daddy's cake with a fork instead.

My friends helped me open and play with all my new toys

We had Sloppy Joes for dinner. Everybody wore their spooky costumes. It was tons of fun and I got some very excellent birthday gifts from my friends and family!

OCTOBER 30, 2010--My Actual Birthday

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JASPER-BOY!!

I would've been satisfied with 1,000 balloons for my birthday!

Chillin' in my new Cozy Cruiser.

My FIRST Circus on my FIRST birthday

This is me with Grandma and Grandpa at the circus

Reading in my new reading chair after the circus.

One Year of Wonderful...

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(Big Birthday Weekend Post To Follow...)

This is my second of three posts about Jasper-boy turning one. What a difference a year makes! As I look at the difference between his hospital picture and his pumpkin patch picture it makes me marvel at how fast time flies. A year ago I was just getting to know this little boy; one year later I don't know life without him--he is truly my best friend and I live for my life for him. I have shed more than a few tears about Jasper turning one. Every birthday he has will in turn make me older too. Here are some things I LOVE about you Jasper:

You still smell good all the time!

You're a good sleeper, good eater, and have a wonderful temperament

You laugh at the silliest things and have the silliest faces

You are always in a good mood

You know Mommy and Daddy would do anything for you and you sometimes take advantage of that

You have some goofy teeth--8 front and a molar--that I wish would never change

You love to play ALL the time

You have some wonderful friends who you've known most of your life

Your hugs and kisses that you give out freely whenever I ask--sometimes tongue kisses and sometimes bite the lip kisses

Your big brown (yes they finally turned completely brown) eyes and long lashes

I don't want to get all sentimental about my Mommy, but I can't help but think of everything she is missing out on. When Jasper is sleeping I can see my Momma. I'm not sure if it is in his jaw line or just the peaceful look he has. The moment he wakes up I can see my Momma in his sleepy big eyes. I could watch him sleep forever just to be reminded of her.

Happy Birthday my little Jasper-boy. You have brought us one year of wonderful! You are an amazing gift to us that I could not imagine living so long without.

Leading up to One

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October was a busy month leading up to my first birthday. I have such a silly personality and Mommy says I get sillier every day.

Cleo and I are best friends. She loves to take naps on my lap.

Me with my Mommy and Daddy

Some of the birds at Powers Farm

Pumpkin hunting at Powers Farm with my PopPop and cousins

I finally decided that clapping my hands is fun.

If asked what a lion says I reply "roar" (really ferocious)...if asked what a cow says I reply "roar"(really ferocious).

I insist on feeding myself.

I love to give kisses and hugs.

I love to climb stairs as fast as I can.

I don't want any part in trying to walk on my own.

I took sign language class with my Mom and Dad.

I'm as tall as a 21 month old.

Eleven Months!

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It's been a pretty good month back here at home. I started my sign language classes with my Momma. Daddy has enjoyed coming too. Momma has caught on really well and thinks it's because she saw Grammy Sue do the same signs her whole life. It's been fun and I really like the teacher--she's funny. I finally decided I could actually crawl on my knees now that I am wearing pants more. I don't think I liked the feel of carpet and grass on my knees during the summer months when I was wearing shorts. I can pull up on furniture and am cruising all over the place but Momma doesn't think I will start walking anytime soon because I'm still afraid to balance on my own. I tried out the word "Dada" and decided it was pretty cool. I also liked the reaction Dada gave me when I finally said it--he was so excited. I'm changing and growing everyday. Momma is getting a bit sentimental about my upcoming birthday. Where does the time fly? She's just worried that since I am getting older this fast she is also getting older this fast!! It's time to plan the best costume birthday party ever cause I'll be turning one next month!

Ten Months (Momma's behind)

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August started with a visit from my favorite cousins, Ruby and Frannie. We all live close but it was fun to see them at PopPop's house.

We took a ride on the Heber Valley Railroad That's me...the one who isn't facing the camera.

I rode one ride at the fair. It made me sick and I was more than ready to get off!

We went to St. George. I went swimming and hiking.....

...and met my GG Bowne

I went to Gardner Village with my Pop Pop and rode my first horse and pet a lot of animals

I went to the aquarium with my Grandma and Grandpa. It was intriguing!

Back to Rochester:

Paisley and Me (I didn't drool--it's water down my front)
My Momma ADORES me!
Mommy and her Aunt Veronica

Mommy was glad because soon after we had to leave Utah and go back to NY she got a special visit from her Aunt Veronica and Laurel, Jocelyn and Paisley. It was so much fun and they left too soon but we did a lot while they were here.

Nine Month Pictures

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Jasper's 9 Month Stats:

Weight: 20 lbs 11 oz--50%

Length: 30 inches--95%
Head: 45 cm--30%

(Just a small sample of the pictures Malorie took while we were in Utah)

I can't even attempt to put into words how I feel about this little boy...pure joy and immeasurable love. He is an amazing little being who is all little boy right down to his pushing trucks while making the truck noises. He loves to explore by eating rocks to see how they taste and finding every piece of grass my vacuum misses--he sure keeps me on my toes! Not a day passes that I don't have the time of my life with Jasper. LOVE HIM!!

Nine Months--Canada, Utah, Wyoming

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The summer has been so busy. July came and went like a whirlwind. My mommy and daddy, along with Daddy's cousins, took me to Canada to see Niagara falls.

We celebrated my Mommy's birthday and the Fourth of July at home before heading off to Utah.
Right when we got to Utah, Mommy, Daddy, Grandma Bonnie, PopPop Williams and GG took me to the Hogle Zoo.

We went to Mirror Lake in the Uintas with PopPop Williams and Uncle Micah and Aunt Chelsea

We went on my first camping trip to Bear Lake with the Whitney family and I did so good and loved the water. I even got to ride on Grandpa Lenny's boat! I didn't much care for my life jacket so it was a short ride.

On the 24th of July we had a Pioneer Day celebration at my GG's house and I got to have a pool party with Ella.

At the end of July we headed to Mommy's favorite vacation place--Jackson Hole and Yellowstone. It was fun and once again I was a perfect angel!

We saw lots of elk, some deer and some buffalo in Yellowstone. I had to wait to see wolves and bears when we got to West Yellowstone and went to the big discovery center.

The first month of our vacation was perfect! I traveled like a champ, had tons of fun and amazed everyone at what a good kiddo I am!!

Eight Months...

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MEMORIAL DAY

(Hope Mommy isn't watching)

Cool pool party with my favorite cousins Ruby and Frannie
I learned to sit by myself

FATHERS DAY AT CANANDAIGUA BEACH
I love my Daddy
Tired after Canandaigua Lake

POOL PARTY WITH MY FRIENDLIES

Me and Sophia (she's my woman)
Best Buds--Jasper and Jason

Dear Mom

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I think about you every day, but this week has been different. This week I had cantaloupe gelato (my favorite) just like when you and I were in Pisa. I think you had coconut gelato that day. Remember when we bought the knockoff Gucci watches there? On the Erie Canal heading to Fairport Village there are bushes that smell exactly like the rose bushes in Grandma Ellen's courtyard. Every time I walk past I inhale so deeply so I can take a piece of that smell with me. That was always the first thing I smelled when we got to Grandma Ellen's house. This week I saw your smiling, happy face on the television screen when I watched Richie and Julies wedding video. Ruby loves that movie! I was so happy to see you--it's been a year and a half since I've seen that smile, but it made me sad that I can't see it in real life anymore. This week when I laughed at Jasper I actually heard your laugh. Am I starting to sound like you? It wasn't done on purpose but after the laugh escaped I thought, "oh, that sounded like my mom's laugh." I wanted to look around to see if you were standing behind me and laughing at Jasper just like I was.

I'm reminded of you and think about you everyday, Mom. There were things this week that reminded me of you in so many physical ways. You are amazing Mom!

Missed you yesterday, miss you today, miss you forever.
Love,
Whit

Thinking...

2010-06-10T12:24:00.001-07:00

For those who know me, know that I only post once a month--on J's big month birthdays. My thought process these days consists of what time my daily feedings will land, what the -boo is going to wear, who I am supposed to meet and when, what's for dinner?, and when can I fit in a shower and a walk or two for the day.

The other day I let the ball drop. Not seriously tragic, but a bit embarrassing. We have a crazy dog named Cleo who loves to sun herself in the otherwise useless sunroom. As my baby was taking an afternoon nap I cut to the chase and started doing things that needed to be done...change my clothes into something comfy, finish watching Alice in Wonderland (since hubby didn't want to watch it), talk to hubby on his lunch break, do some dishes, all while Cleo was sunning (presumably) in the sunroom. On my side door comes a knock. Knocks at my house make me want to run and hide under the bed. Another knock as I am debating whether I really want to answer or not. Now from the sunroom screen door, "Whitney!" Who is that? Again, "Whitney!" Well, shit. Guess they know I'm in here somewhere (as I am skulking from window to window trying to catch a glimpse of my unannounced guest). Guess I will answer the door to whoever it is who knows my name. It's my brand new, only been in a week, across the street neighbor...holding my crazy little dog. Where had she been and exactly how long has she been gone? Got me! I was too shocked to ask questions. Simply swept her up, thanked Rich two, maybe three times and slammed the door. If I let my dog get loose, I wonder if he is expecting to find my child crawling down the sidewalk next. What kind of dog owner (or mother) am I?

It was a silly little accident that has made me feel very exposed to these new neighbors who are genuinely nice people. I step outside and wonder if they are checking to see if my child is wearing a hat in the sun or has socks on his feet when it is chilly outside (when obviously the dog getting out had nothing at all to do with my child). How could something as small as my dog getting out make me feel so insecure about my abilities? Another thought has crossed my mind as well. When Addi was here there was NO WAY she would escape me and go unnoticed for so long. Does this mean I love crazy Cleo any less? I can honestly answer that I don't love Cleo in the same way that I loved Addi--Adds was my world; she was around before there was a baby. Cleo is a new addition to our family and I am still working on getting to know her. The day Cleo escaped, my stomach knotted up at the thoughts of what could have happened to her. Did it take this small act to make me realize that I really do have a soft spot for this crazy Cleo? That day I did realize that, although not Addi, I do love this adorable little furball we call CleCle. Needless to say, the days of sunning in the sunroom are over. Door from the kitchen to the useless sunroom remains shut at all times now and sunroom has, once again, become as useless as ever.

Epilogue:
I have since swallowed my embarrassment and ventured over to find out the details of my Cleo's escape. Rich let me know that she was sitting in our front yard sunning herself on the grass (guess the sunroom wasn't good enough). He thought she was leashed as she always is when I work outside. After a while without seeing me around the yard, he realized she wasn't actually leashed. He came over and picked her up without a problem. At that point, Cleo was so excited to see him she gave him a "Welcome to the Neighborhood" present--she peed all over him. Now instead of thanking him for bringing my dog back, I have apologized two, maybe three times for my dog urinating all over my new neighbor. Life's a peach...eat it up!!

Seven Months...

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I'm seven months old today. We've gone to a lot of fun places and done a lot of fun things. I've tried so many new foods like squash, carrots, apples, bananas, peas, pears, peaches, Arrowroot cookies, licorice and popsicle. I even drink water out of my sippy cup. Although I'm not crawling yet, I've become really mobile and can make it places by doing my commando scoot. I'm always on the move in my walker too.

I love to dance with my mommy and my favorite song in the world is Soul Sister by Train--she changes the words to "Hey, Jasper-Jasper...where's my mister-mister." I've learned to shake my head no and like to do it the most when people laugh that I'm doing it in the first place. I really like to ham everything up a bit!

Mommy tells me that most babies my age have nice, large leg rolls. I have long, lean chicken legs. A few days ago I started to get my first tooth. I love to mess with it with my tongue. Other than really wanting more attention than usual, this tooth business hasn't really phased me too much. Here are some of the things we've done this month...

LAKE ONTARIO AT SODUS BAY

ROCHESTER'S FAMOUS LILAC FESTIVAL

This is my mommy's splurge from the festival. She says it's her favorite! It even shows me rocking the 'hawk.

WATKINS GLEN

I was done in by the end of the day. My Daddy has a good shoulder to sleep on.

MY FIRST PARADE

EAST ROCHESTER MEMORIAL DAY PARADE

I slept through most of the parade. I was just extremely proud to be wearing my new Yankee's ball cap.

I've gone to the zoo, had boys night with my daddy and went to my friends first birthday party. Cleo and I have become good friends and my mommy doesn't like her trying to sneak a lick on my face now and then (even though I don't mind). It's been a beautiful and hot month so I went swimming in my pool. It's been another great month just lovin' life!!

Six Months...

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It's official... I'm as big at six months as a large nine month old baby! Mommy can't believe how big I've gotten. She was shocked after our visit to the pediatricians office for my six month checkup. Here is what has happened this month.

EASTER
I colored Easter eggs with my mommy and daddy.

The Easter Bunny made a stop at my house and left lots of Easter loot for me to find.
I see my daddy studying on the computer everyday so what better Easter gift than my very own laptop?

Addi

This was one of my last story times with my best friend Addi. She passed away shortly after this story time. It was very sad. She was good to me.

Cleo

Daddy talked Mommy into getting a new member of the family because, without Addi, our hearts felt a little empty and sad. We got a puggle and named her Foxy Cleopatra--Cleo for short. What a wild dog! She's taken on the nickname of "Crazy Cleo." What on earth was Mommy thinking? She tells me I came to her perfectly trained and Cleo came naughty and needs to be trained.

PopPop's Visit

I was so excited for our visit from PopPop. We've all missed him and it was fun to have him around. We did a lot while he was here.

Vegetables I officially started my first vegetable eating. I have only tried sweet potatoes and I really like them!

Randoms

Mommy has been trying to train Cleo to walk already. She misses her Addi walks but Cleo is getting good. I go in the Bjorn so my stroller wheels don't run over and kill Cleo. As you can tell from this picture, I LOVE MY TONGUE still.
People say I look like my Daddy.

I've always been super cute but seem to get cuter everyday. I'm a curious, fun loving kid. I have a mohawk and I love rockin' the 'hawk. I have chickydown-like hair. Strangers comment on my 'hawk all the time--saying they love the hawk or it looks like I have static electricity on my head. My eyes are still a mystery. Most of the time they look green (like moms) but other times they look brown (like dads). The suspense is killing my mom and dad! I love to laugh and have turned the end of my laugh into a fake cough. I've also found all sorts of cool sounds I can make with my mouth. I've officially moved to my very own bed in my very own room. I have very big hands and my daddy thinks my large hands will come in handy when I learn to play sports. I am a lover and like to grab my mommy's face and plant big wet kisses all over--such a little Romeo. I'm such a happy little boy and the light of my mommy & daddy's life.

Six Month Stats:

Weight: 17 lbs 9 oz--55%

Height: 28 inches--75%

Head Circ: 42.75--25%

How could you not love my smile?

Sending my Addi-girl to Heaven

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This is Addi's last picture taken April 4, 2010--Easter Morning.

(WARNING DOG-LOVERS...TERRIBLY SAD)

So, I sent my dear little miss Addi Marie to Heaven on Tuesday. I wasn't planning on that, but I guess that's what my day had in store for me. Last Wednesday when we were walking she couldn't even make the first block. I knew something was wrong and took her to the vet that day. Addi was diagnosed with a heart murmur. Serious, but nothing a cardiologist and medication couldn't fix. Friday she seemed a little off so I took her back to the vet. Everything checked out just fine and we were told to keep her down and wait for her cardiologist appointment. The weekend wasn't good but Monday she was in great spirits. Needless to say by Tuesday evening our sweet Precious Addi Marie flew to Heaven.
On April 20, 2002, my mom had a brilliant idea to go get a dog while my dad wasn't home. Micah and I went with her. It was a day that would change my life forever. The second I saw the little white cocker spaniel with buff ears I knew we belonged together. The rest is history! Everyone who met her loved her. Addi was a perfect fit!!

Addi, Steven and I have been through a lot together. She went everywhere with us.

When I got married my mom gave me the best gift she ever could have--she gave me Addi. Grammy Sue turned into Momma #2 for Addi and Addi spent many of her days up at my mom's house while I was at work.

Addi loved spending summers with Steven and I doing anything outdoors. She loved to hike and explore.

At 5 years old she had a double knee surgery. Through her knee surgery, cherry eye, puss pockets, food allergies, hip dysplasia and many other things, Addi was a trooper and a fighter. She let us take good care of her and returned our acts of love with her happiness and love.

Addi made a cross-country car trip last year with Steven when we moved to Rochester. She was his companion while I worked things out in Utah.

She flew home with us to Utah on two occasions and was the perfect little passenger.

Addi walked ME everyday. She would look forlorn if we missed a day of walking. We walked twice a day when I moved to Rochester. She helped me fill my empty time and loved to hang with me all day long. Addi explored Rochester with us.

It didn't take Addi long to love her little brother.
She became his protector and babysitter. One evening when I was running an errand, Addi alerted Steven when Jasper was awake and crying. She would stand guard by him if I took the garbage out or hopped in the shower. She would take naps with him. She had a keen sense of responsibility toward him. She was the perfect big sister to Jasper.

Addi was my first child. I treated her like a human. She taught me how to be a good mommy.
She was not a dirty dog...she got a bath once a week and sometimes more if she smelled funny. She sat in my lap when I would get her toothbrush and let me brush her teeth. She would dodge puddles so her feet wouldn't get wet. She was a squirrel-chasing fiend. I wish now she would've caught just one.

Addi was up for anything and would always put a smile on our faces and make us laugh.

Tuesday afternoon I gave my sweet Addi back to my mom--along with a chunk of my heart. My house is quiet without the scuttle of her claws on the wood floor. My lap is cold because I no longer have my Addi-girl sharing it with Jasper. The middle of our bed is empty. Steven and I can actually cuddle with each other. My mornings are lonely waking up without her sharing my pillow soundly sleeping with her tongue hanging out as she holds her baby Scooter.
When I walk in the door she isn't there to greet me with a wagging back end and a smile on her face (yes, she actually smiled). I miss my little girl; I hope she misses me, and I hope she is having fun in Heaven with her beloved Grammy Sue now.

We love you and miss you Precious Addi Marie!

Five Months

2010-03-30T08:30:00.000-07:00

I'm five months already. You could say I'm a perfect little angel. I grow bigger everyday and love to amaze Mommy and Daddy with all sorts of new tricks.

This is me on the morning of my first trip to the library.

I started going to the library with my mom for baby time. I have met a lot of new friends. I look forward to my Monday morning trips to the library so I can play with Jason, Sarah, Micah, Milo, Elle and Alice. I have even gone to hang out with Jason and Sarah after the library. We get along really well!

I've practiced up on my drooling. By the looks of my shirt, I'd say I'm honing that practice to perfection.

BUFFALO, NEW YORK
March 16, 2010

For daddy's spring break we went to Buffalo to do some exploring. Addi even got to come with us. It was a beautiful day so we did a lot of walking around the city. We had a lot of fun.

That's me in the stroller. Daddy and I look like little ants in front of this massive building.

We ate lunchish/dinner at the Anchor Bar. This was fun because it was where Buffalo Wings were created. Mommy doesn't even really like wings but said the wings at the Anchor Bar were by far the best she's ever had!!

MY FIRST TRIP TO SENECA PARK ZOO
March 18, 2010

We saw so many cool animals at the zoo. We saw:

SEALS

ELEPHANTS

AND THE VERY BEST...POLAR BEARS!!

We also saw monkeys, eagles, tigers, hyenas, rhinoceroses and other cool animals too!!

In my spare time I just like to...CHILL

I am practicing my sitting skills and can sit on my own for a minute or two. Mommy has to make sure I don't head dive in one direction--sometimes I lose my balance.

I love to laugh. Mommy and Daddy have found all sorts of tickle spots on me. I also like to laugh at them when they are acting stupid, talking to each other or making funny noises in my face.

When I eat my cereal, I insist on holding my very own spoon. Mommy gets the spoon to feed me so I think I should get a spoon too. After she feeds me a spoonful of cereal I like to practice feeding myself.

I am very talented with my binki and love to take it out. I can't always get it back in the right way but boy do I try!

At the end of each day I'm beat.

2010-03-01T11:17:00.000-08:00

“For everything you have missed, you have gained something else, and for everything you gain, you lose something else.”

One year ago today my mom gave me a special gift. It was the day I found out a baby would join Steven and I through the journey of life. Today, one year later, I have discovered that my mom gave me much more than a gift. She gave me Jasper--perfection I could never have expected. My mom has missed a big chunk of my journey. I would like to think she is proud. I hope she hasn't missed a second of it!

I talk to you, but I don't know what to say. I am afraid you don't want me to say anything but inside of me there are words waiting to come out. I tell you how I feel-like how I miss you. And how I love you despite my broken heart. And how I need you in my life. And especially how much I want you to be here. Those words may forver float in the air. Sometimes I wonder if there are words you want to say too... but I'll never know.--Annonymous

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM!

I am FOUR MONTHS old

2010-02-28T07:24:00.000-08:00

Today I am officially 121 days old. Here's some more of what I have done:

I got my Bumbo for my 3 month birthday

I moved up to size 2 diapers.
I had my first gut-wrenching belly laugh--once again at my silly daddy. Mommy must NOT be funny!
I celebrated my first Valentines Day
I went to my 4 month check up and got round two of my owie shots
I tried cereal for the first time

I am slowly transitioning to my very own bedroom. Mommy is dragging her feet about it. I sleep from 8:30 or 9:00 at night until 7 in the morning so I really have no reason to sleep in Mommy and Daddy's room anymore.

I am beginning to get stranger anxiety. It happened at Daddy's school when I met with the Director of Physical Therapy so she could do some exercises on me for a presentation. It happened again when I went to see the doctor for my checkup. I get a really scared look on my face and begin to cry then search the room for Mommy or Daddy. I love them.

I love to smile and I am getting a little bit tickle-ish. I giggle just a little bit when that happens. Addi is my pet dog-dog and I love to sit on mommy's lap and pet her ear. Sometimes her hair is so soft I want to pull on it. We love to take naps together. Addi is a good big sister to me.

Tub-time is my favorite. I swim like a fish. I love to kick-kick-kick and swing my arms. Sometimes I think it's funny when I pee in the tub.

I love to read stories. Mommy is going to take me to story time at the library. It will be fun. Mommy sings silly songs to me everyday. I am learning my ABC's, my numbers up to 10,colors of the rainbow, and sounds on the farm.

This week we finally got walloped with our first New England snow storm of the year. Mommy bundled me up in my massive snow suit to take me outside for a picture. It took her 5 minutes to get that suit on. It took 20 seconds to get my picture taken. Sometimes my momma is a little crazy.

My four month checkup stats:
Weight: 14 lbs 15 oz
Length: 24.5 inches
Head: 41

It's a LOVE Thing...

2010-02-14T11:50:00.001-08:00

Happy Valentines Day from the cutest little boy in the world. Jasper sends everyone his love today!

Happy Birthday to my Daddy!

2010-02-13T10:38:00.000-08:00

Happy birthday to one of the most wonderful men I know. My dad is one-of-a-kind and could never be duplicated. He is a great dad, awesome PopPop and an even better friend.

My dad has always let me know that anything is possible. When I feel helpless and hopeless he boosts my spirits. When I felt that moving to New York really quickly was out of the question, he helped it happen in so many ways. He still lets me cry on the way to the airport when he leaves New York (even though I have made that trip several times now). When I have a bad day I can call him and vent. When something good happens he is happy with me. He is such a strong man and I love him for that. HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD!!!

Three Months Old

2010-01-30T11:02:00.000-08:00

Today I have been alive for about 90 days. I have done a lot of fun things and have learned many new tricks. Here is what I've done during my third month of life:

I found my hands and love to suck on my hand full-fisted

I laughed at Daddy...only once, but my mommy heard it
I found my feet
I started tracking with my eyes
I met my new cousin Frances

I got my first cut on my thumb from mom when she was clipping my nails

I slept through the night (once) from 10:00 to 8:00. Other nights I decide to turn in for the night at about 10:30 and might want a bit of a snack by about 5:30 in the morning.
I responded to my name when my Daddy called it.

I love to watch football with my dad. My favorite past time is blowing spit bubbles to see how big they can get. I still sleep in Mom and Dad's room because Mommy doesn't want me to be a big boy yet. I love to walk with Mommy or Daddy's help and can almost make it half way across the room! I still don't really cry--don't really have anything to cry about. I have figured out my own schedule and love my naps between 10:30 and 11 in the morning and again at about 3 in the afternoon. Addi loves to take naps with me. Story time is a MUST every night! I love to light up the room with my smile and it seems I never quit smiling.

My mommy and daddy say they are the luckiest people in the world because I am here. I love life and it shows in my mellow temperament. It's been an awesome three months!

Jasper's First Christmas

2010-01-01T22:15:00.000-08:00

Two Months Old

2009-12-30T19:19:00.000-08:00

Time flies when you're having fun. I am two months old already. My mommy says that because I am growing up so fast I will begin potty training next week--I'm not sure what that means.

I've spent the majority of my second month in Utah. Mom and Dad call Utah home. I insist that New York is my home because that is where I was born. Utah has turned out to be a very nice place.

Here is what has happened in my second month of life:

I saw my first snow
I smiled at my mom and dad
I rolled from my back to my belly without any help

I started talking and love to tell stories. My favorite word right now is a-goo
I was real brave when I got my first shots from the doctor. At six weeks old I weighed 10.5!
I took my first plane ride and was a perfect angel
I saw Utah for the first time
My cousin Frances was born the day after I left on vacation. I can't wait to see her!
I met my GGVD (Great Grandma VerDawn)

I met my Aunt Nicole
My blessing day was December 20

I celebrated my first Christmas

I went to tons of parties and met lots of family members

I love to stand. My daddy can't believe how strong I am. I hold my head up for long periods of time and don't even get tired! I have discovered my tongue and love to stick it out and blow bubbles. My mommy still loves to cuddle me and I love my cuddle time. She is glad I haven't outgrown her yet. I can't wait to see what other tricks I can discover in the next month!

Blessing Day

2009-12-20T17:45:00.001-08:00

Today was my blessing day. It was a very special day for me. I was blessed at my Great Grandma VerDawn's house by my Grandpa Richard. My Uncle Micah and Aunt Chelsea drove up from Cedar City especially for my special blessing day.

This is my GGVD--Great Grandma VerDawn

My mommy and daddy love me to pieces and can't imagine life without me!

These are the men in my family. My Uncle Richie isn't here because he is in New York with my new cousin, Frances Susan.

My family loves me and helped make my blessing day the best day ever!

To make my day even better, my mommy took me to meet my Grammy Sue. She made me bundle up and wear a hat because she said it was cold. Today I got to meet my Grammy Sue, get a blessing from my PopPop Williams and have early Christmas with Micah and Chelsea.

What a special day!

One Month Old

2009-11-30T08:00:00.000-08:00

My name is Jasper. I'm one month old today. I was born on October 30 because I wanted to be here for Halloween. My mommy is really sad that I'm already a month old because she never wants me to grow up.

In the last month I have been really good for my Mommy and Daddy. They think I am spoiling them. Because of my calm temperament, my mommy has decided it may not be so bad having a little brother or sister for me someday. Here are some things I have done in the last month:

I celebrated my first Halloween in the hospital

I met my PopPop

I met my Uncle Richie and Aunt Julie

I met my sister (dog) Addi

I met my cousin Ruby

I have had 2 pediatrician visits--no shots yet!

I met Grandma and Grandpa Whitney

I took first hike at Mendon Pond

I had my first tear. Only one tear and no more since then...

I met my Uncle Micah and Aunt Chelsea

I celebrated my first Thanksgiving

I took my first trip to Palmayra

I love to be cuddled and I love to be swaddled. I sleep really good at night I don't even cry when Mommy puts me to bed. I get the hiccups a few times everyday. I am still very small but I am growing. I love my swing and I love to take tubs. I love to walk Addi in my Baby Bjorn with my mommy and I love when Daddy pushes me in the stroller.

My daddy says I have big eyes like my mommy...

My mommy says I have big lips like my daddy...

Either way I am pretty handsome and I am one month old today!

Introducing...JASPER FELIX WHITNEY

2009-11-06T18:11:00.000-08:00

It's true. Our baby has come. I certainly did not anticipate the events of the last few days. I guess pregnancy and having a baby is as unpredictable as everyone says.

Thursday Night: Steve suggested we go out to dinner seeing that when the baby came we might have to slow down on the whole "dinner out" thing. We went to the King and I so I could order some spicy Thai food. I had not felt much during the day--even managed to get Addi out for her two walks. I had two pains real close together while we ate. As Steve was paying I stood up and realized I was sitting in a puddle (draw your own inferences). We RACED to the hospital.

I do not want to brag or jinx myself by saying that not only was my pregnancy a piece of cake, the labor was even easier! As soon as I got my epidural I was cracking jokes and having a great time with Steve and Cathy the nurse. I thought it was a really fun night.

Two hours after I started pushing the doctor discovered that Jasper was facing diagonal and battling his way out with my bone. He had 2 large scrapes on his head. The doctor believed that if his heart rate stayed stable I could get this baby out but she was beginning to think things were getting scary. Jasper was stressing himself out. No C-section for me...I suggested using a vacuum and they were happy to oblige. One vacuum cleaner and five pushes later and Steve and I had our new baby, Jasper Felix Whitney.

Friday: I couldn't help but just watch as my new little boy slept next to me in the room. He had the cutest little whine while he slept. As it persisted for a while I began to think maybe he was swaddled too tightly so I called my nurse. His heart, lungs and blood sugar seemed to be just fine, but he was taken to NICU for observation. I was told he would be back in a "couple of hours".

Hours passed. No baby. I went to NICU to feed him. They let me know that there were some concerns but that he would be back with me by early afternoon.

Early Afternoon: No baby. I went again to feed him. They let me know that he would have to stay overnight in the NICU because he couldn't keep his temperature regulated and it kept dipping. They did some cultures and also placed an IV in his hand and began antibiotics. They thought because he had scraped his head in the womb that he could have an infection. I would have stayed with my baby forever but anytime the nurses needed me back at my room they would track me down and I would have to leave.

All Night: Every two hours my nurse would come into my room and wake Steve and I up. We would walk down a very long hall to the NICU, wash our hands up to our elbows for no less than 3 minutes and sit together while I fed our baby. It was probably one of the hardest nights of my life.
Jasper with his IV

Saturday: Happy Halloween!! Jasper stayed in NICU until about 3:00 p.m. My dad came to see him and must have been our good luck charm. We were able to walk with the baby back to our very own room! Now we could be a family.

Sunday: Home again, home again. We were the last in our wing to be discharged. We had to wait to make sure all of Jasper's cultures checked out okay. Once they did, we hit the road and didn't look back. What a wonderful and scary experience! I never knew I could feel so elated and so worried all at once. Everything worked out perfect and I am the mother to the most wonderful and precious little boy in the world!
Jasper Felix Whitney
Born: October 30, 2009, 2:43 a.m.
Weight: 7 pounds
Length: 21 inches

39 weeks

2009-10-25T18:43:00.000-07:00

23 weeks pregnant

37 weeks pregnant

As my anxiety level has steadily increased on a daily basis, I have come to the realization that this pregnancy is almost over. I have loved everything about being pregnant and I can't believe that I will soon be holding my baby in my arms instead of my ever growing belly.

I was blessed to find out about this baby on my Mom's birthday. She sent me a wonderful gift on her special day. I moved to NY half way through my pregnancy and didn't know what doctor to see or where to even begin. Thanks to my wonderful sister-in-law, who has taken my hand and led the way through this pregnancy, it has been smooth sailing.

Pregnancy Thoughts:
I will miss feeling my little guy moving all the time although I am anxious to hold him and smell him.
I was never sick and never threw up but Jasper hated toothpaste and mint gum my first trimester.
Jasper loves fruit of any kind...now he is wanting more cakes and cookies.
Perfect strangers have predicted he is a boy because of the perfect basketball my belly resembles.
To date, I have gained 40 lbs. Everyone insists it's all baby...finding it hard to believe my baby weighs 40 lbs!
No stretch marks in sight!!!
My doctor estimates his current weight between 6 & 6.5 pounds--just a little guy.
Steven acts slightly annoyed when strangers tell me how darling, beautiful or great I look.
I have been able to keep his middle name secret because there has to be one thing I can keep to myself till he comes.
Jasper is NOT named after Twilight. If I hadn't been set on the name for FIVE years I would have changed my mind about it. Truth be told I have loved the name since the movie 28 Days.
I have been faithful about my asprin taking...not so faithful about my squeezy sock wearing.
Addi has tested everything we have bought for Jasper. She especially likes the crib, the pack and play, the activity mat and his stroller.
I haven't faltered on my walking and manage to still walk twice a day with Addi. Soon Addi and I will be walking with another member of the family!
I think he is with my mom right now. Even though I can feel him move and know he is alive in there, something about this experience tells me his spirit is chillin' with Grammy Sue. I think he is having a hard time saying goodbye to her...who can blame him?
I have talked to my mom and told her to send something of herself down with him...her toe thumb, smile, anything.
Jasper will have a new cousin in December. I am sure they are already best of friends.

The two preggos and two cousins.

November 1st can't come fast enough. Needless to say that within the next two weeks (tops) Steve and I will be Dad and Mom. I can't wait!!

2009-10-07T00:01:00.000-07:00

THINGS MY MOM HAS MISSED. . .
Dad's retirement in November...
Ruby's 2nd birthday...
Micah's wedding.
Her 56th birthday...
My positive pregnancy test on her birthday.
Steve's acceptance to PT school...
Our big move to New York.
Her 34th wedding anniversary.
Baby Showers...
Belly Bumps...
My WHOLE pregnancy...
Giving motherly advice to her only daughter who is pregnant and needs her mommy.
Birthdays...
Her smart, sassy but oh-so-adorable granddaughter, Ruby...
Julie's pregnancy.
Countless things I cannot even begin to mention

THINGS I HAVE MISSED ABOUT MY MOM . . .
EVERYTHING. The small stuff; the big stuff; and, the inbetween stuff. Still can't go a day without tears being shed, a choking feeling in my throat and a need to call my mom. No matter what she has missed out on in our lives, I miss her more. Sending my love up to my mom today. I MISS YOU MOMMA!

New York

2009-09-21T12:40:00.000-07:00

Isn't it funny (or strange) that my unfamiliarity of New York is familiar to those who have lived in New York their whole lives? As I walk Addi, I can't help but think that I am a stranger on the outside looking in. Ironic thing is that everyone in New York treats me as if they have known me forever. The people in Rochester are very friendly.

I got lost on my way to my brother's house yesterday. I have made the trip many times over the course of the summer. Yesterday I tried to do it without trusty Tom Tom leading the way. It is now clear to me why even native residents still travel the city with their GPS units--it gets pretty confusing. I can proudly say that I know my way to the doctor's office and the best mall in Rochester without "Tom". I wish I could find my way to Richie's house without him.

Some of the stranger things I have seen living in Rochester are the squirrels running across the power lines outside my front room window. Why don't they ever get electrocuted? On the same note, watch out for falling acorns when walking under the thick trees. Addi loves to hunt the squirrels so I believe they are trying to declare war on her from up above. People actually buy and display lawn jockeys in their front yards...I can't remember EVER seeing a lawn jockey in Heber. Though the climate here is comparative (minus humidity) to Utah, everyone has a swimming pool--mostly the ones above ground but they put really fancy decking around them. We have not experienced fall yet. The trees are barely beginning to change. I am anxiously anticipating the vibrant autumn season the East is known for.

I have decided that in order to remember the great memories and strangeness of this new environment, I need to document what I am thinking--pictures would be better. Today, I love NY...tomorrow could always be a different story!

Home to Utah

2009-08-23T13:31:00.001-07:00

I know...my blog is boring. I must say that my summer has been ANYTHING but boring. We just got back from a two week trip to Utah. As many of you know, I was not as tough about moving to NY as I thought I would be---I had a horrible case of homesickness and, at times, believed I was going to lose my mind. Being back in New York after our trip "home" has been much easier and I feel like Heber is where I visit now and New York is where I call home.

Besides eating out on a daily basis, Steve and I enjoyed our time with family. We went to a Bees game, the zoo, the Uintah's a few times and boating more than once. Steve caught 31 fish--only 4 of them ended up in the oven. I had three baby showers; one given by my mother-in-law and grandma-in-law; the second from my wonderful aunts Veronica and Judy; and, Debbie and Peggy from my old neighborhood threw my third shower. I think I am in business for baby J to arrive in the next 6-10 weeks!!

Addi in her carry-on bag. She is the perfect flyer!

I love these people! Some of my cousins and my Aunts Judy and Veronica. They mean the world to me.

I guess my baby bump is pretty apparent at this point. I am on the countdown and am getting really nervous and very anxious to meet baby J. Thank you to everyone who made our trip to Utah the best! Steve is back in school now. He has a busy semester of PT school topped off with the arrival of our new addition. We will have many visitors throughout the end of the year and at Christmas we get to go home again! What could be better than that?

Take a Tour With Me

2009-07-12T17:00:00.000-07:00

Welcome to the Whitney home. Built in 1910 but newly renovated, this house will celebrate it's 100th birthday next year! I have always begged Steven to let us live in an old house just once. He said it would be too much work. Not this one! Ha ha. I always have a knack for getting my way.

--Front entrance. Love the wood floor.

--Steven's Office.

--The door into Steven's office and part of the front entry.

--Front room looking into the front entry.

--Our front room...love my red couches but won't ever get red couches again. They fade fast!

--Dining room seen from our kitchen.

--Our spacious kitchen. Before the renovation there were actually two small kitchens separated by a wall. I have learned that Jewish families often have two small kitchens--one for meat and one for everything else (something I would have never learned living in Utah). I only need one kitchen cause I don't even know how to cook!

--The sun room off the kitchen. Every house in New York has one. Too bad I don't have anything to fill it with!

--The back of the big yellow house. See a previous post for the front view; however, the lawn looks 20 times better now.

--The window in the finished attic. Once again, no funiture for the attic.

Stay tuned for 2nd level and attic pictures.

It's A . . .

2009-06-08T19:03:00.000-07:00

BOY!! All BOY. When I say that, I mean it. We are so excited to be having a boy. I would have been happy with either but I grew up with a big brother so it just seems natural to have a boy as the firstborn. I have had a boy name picked out for about four years. I was having a really hard time with girl names--don't have to think about that this time around!

He is the cutest thing ever. We got a wave and a thumbs-up. He is a thumb sucker and we have the picture to prove it. He even tried to be modest and covered his part with his hand for a minute. I have been told by my doctor and the ultrasound tech that we have a very active baby. The tech was impressed at what a performer he is. Wonder who he gets that trait from?

Thank you Julie for all your help in making my perfect scheme work. Steven wasn't able to be here with me because he has school in New York. I hatched a plan and Julie carried it out perfectly!! That will be something Steven will never forget.

Here is the one and only time I will post my little boy's equipment for the world to see.

He is a happy, healthy baby. Everything measured perfectly. I couldn't ask for an easier pregnancy or a more perfect baby boy. What a perfect day.

Crazy Life and Super BIG Announcement

2009-05-26T13:08:00.000-07:00

I have spent the last 10 days in Rochester (I like to call it "Rochie"). Dad and I flew out on May 14 to meet Steven and his family as they had just arrived in Rochester from a 2,000 mile drive across America with one car, a 17 foot Uhaul and Addi and Sophie the dogs.

We closed on our house on May 15. What an exciting event!! I was worked up all day long anticipating the closing but it went like clockwork and we soon had keys to our new home--the big yellow house as I like to call it. It is a beautiful home with that is perfect to begin raising our new BABY. Did I say that out loud?

Yes, WE ARE HAVING A BABY!!! I found out on March 1 (my momma's birthday) which is a totally separate and special story I will save for later. I am 17 weeks along this week and due on November 1. I guess that is my announcement to the world. Many already know as I have a big mouth and couldn't keep it secret forever. It is bitter sweet to move away from family before I have a baby. I FINALLY GET TO BE A MOM!!!

This is Baby Whitney at 9 weeks when I went for my first Ultra Sound. My third Ultra Sound (and the most important) is scheduled for June 8.

I had the time of my life in Rochester. Steven began school on May 18th and has been busy. Out of 237 individuals who applied to the Physical Therapy program,only 16 were accepted. I am so proud of my husband. I think he is brilliant!

Steven was busy with school and Dad and I kept busy cleaning, improving and unpacking. We always had a bit of time to go do things--lots of eating out; Lake Ontario; Strong Museum of Play; Erie Canal in Pittsford; a toad in the garden; Addi's first tick; Watkins Glen; and a memorable and momentous trip to the projects of Rochie and on and on and on...

For now I am back in Heber. I came home to finish up with my job (sniff sniff). I am truly sad to be leaving such a wonderful work environment. Not many can say they love their jobs. I can say that I love my job not only because of the people I work with but because of the constant challenge I feel when I am at work. I love all of the people I work with. You know who you all are and I love you guys.

I had a doctor appointment yesterday and have an appointment for my 20 week ultra sound on June 8. I can't believe I am almost half way done with my pregnancy! I was really tired in the first trimester but no sickness at all--being pregnant is a piece of cake. Steven has to miss this big event but my doctor has a few reasons she would like to have this part done before I leave. Boy or girl? We shall soon find out!

This is my expanding waist line. Some say they can't tell yet. I say my waist is bigger than it has EVER been.

Through all of this chaos I still could not forget about Mom. I missed her terribly while I was in New York. I'm afraid this feeling inside me will never leave. It seems to follow me and at times get worse and not better. She would have been in the center of all this chaos and news and helped me keep my head if she were here. May my mom know how much she is loved and missed. I have the perfect example of a mother whom I will try my hardest to be like as I raise our baby.

I miss you Steven!

Accepted!!

2009-04-10T15:29:00.000-07:00

I can finally shout from the rooftops that Steven has been accepted into the Doctor of Physical Therapy program at Nazareth College in Rochester, New York!! I have kept this secret for about a week until I could break it to my wonderful boss, Diann. This is such a huge accomplishment for him. He has worked hard for many years and it's nice to be able to see a light at the end of the tunnel.

The program is a three year program that begins May 18. It seems so fast to get everything in order and get him out there to start school. Luckily, I have a wonderful brother and sister-in-law who live in Rochester already and have already bent over backward to help our search. It will be so nice to be close to them.

There are still many things to work out and many decisions to be made. Congratulations Steven! You are such a hard worker and a wonderful husband. I can't wait to start this new adventure with you--many more things to look forward to. New York here we come!

Six Months

2009-04-07T08:52:00.000-07:00

Today is one of those days I just have to talk about my mom. Six months ago today I lost her. In some ways six months has flown; in other ways, this six months has gone by in a slow drum of day-in-day-out. It is hard to think that I haven't talked to my mom for six months. I haven't hugged my mom for six months. I haven't spent a single day with my mom for six months. I haven't heard her voice on the other end of the phone line for six months.

I have gone to visit my mom every day for the last six months. There is a beaten path to where she rests. The snow has melted, the grass has turned green and the birds have begun to watch me from their tall perches in the old trees at the cemetery. But visiting my mom now is not the same as when I used to visit her. I can still tell my mom everything on my mind; I am sure she still listens, but now she never answers back.

I miss my mom. I miss my mom more than I can say. To my family, may you feel my love and may you have a special moment today to remember mom. She was wonderful and still is.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOMMA!

2009-03-01T18:03:00.000-08:00

Nothing Better

2009-02-24T17:55:00.000-08:00

This last weekend we had a wonderful time with my fam. Richie, Jules and Ruby were here from the big NY and Micah and Chelsea graced us with their presence as well. It is SUCH a relief to have family around. I hope my family knows this! Although we always try to fit so much into a few short days, it was well worth the exhaustion.

The girls got pedicures while the boys went shooting at the gun range and took "Alfie" (my dad's Alfa Romeo) for a ride. Of course, we had to mix and match these activities so someone could be home during Ruby's nap time. We were all able to see my dad set apart as a PT missionary which was special for all of us. We went to Park City, went bowling and celebrated the February birthdays and Valentines day, too.

Ruby is so special to me. She brings a life to this house that my mom would have loved to see. Ruby and I played the piano (which sits quiet most of the time) and sang children's primary songs together. She loves Addi and is so kind and gentle with her. Addi loves all the snacks she gets when Ruby is around. I asked Ruby how old she was (2 years old) and she gets this little attitude with an answer of sixteen--perfectly enunciated. She loves makeup and body spray and I will always let her do whatever she wants. There is nothing better than a little niece!

Sad to say, it is hard when everyone leaves and we hardly get to spend the time we want to together. I love you all. You make us all happy when you are here. Come home again as soon as you can!

Richie, Rubes and Chels just chillin'

Pedicures for the girls.

Newlyweds still honeymooning

My official picture of my dad as a missionary--couldn't he at least smile?

Official family picture. Heads are cut off and the picture is a bit lopsided because we set the timer. I'm begging Chelsea for the one on her camera (please!)

Ruby with her best pal, Addi and her Pop Pop. Check out her Rainbow Bright legwarmers--LOVE them!

Ask for the GAS!!!

2009-02-05T09:20:00.000-08:00

I had a most unpleasant experience this morning--the DENTIST!!! For those who know me know that I would rather be dead than sitting in the dentist chair.

This dentist phobia comes from a long life of dental expertise in my family. When I was young, my mom would load the whole family up in the car to take the long trek to Ogden where my Granddad and my uncle were both dentists. The anxiety always built on the 1 and 1/2 hour trip and by the time I got there I was always ready to crawl out of my skin.

My phobia can be traced back to age seven. I had a space the width of a semi truck between my two front teeth. Uncle Bart fixed that real quick. One little snip of the skin between the teeth and the gap closed instantly. Needless to say, I pass out at the thought of blood or injury and did so in the waiting room of Uncle Bart's office, hitting my head on the wall on the way down.

There was also a time one of my parents hit my head putting me into the car and I was rushed into Granddad's dental office where my very own grandfather stitched me up in the dentist chair. He did a wonderful job, but I HATE dentists (not personally but in general).

Today I had the wonderful experience of visiting my local dentist--Kent Probst.

No more travel to Ogden. If I had to do that, I'm afraid I would hightail it to the border and never show up for my appointment. He was very kind in saying that I needed a filling replaced and quite possibly had the smallest little beginning of a cavity that he might as well fill while I was numb.

Life Lesson #1:
ASK FOR THE GAS!!!!

Perhaps happy gas is only a placebo. Who knows what the Doc really pumps into your nose--could just be oxygen for all I know. The one thing I have discovered, however, is that the awful smell of toothdust (the fine particles that float in the air as your tooth is helplessly ground down) is pleasantly concealed by the mask of gas over your nose and the grinding and swooshing noises are much more bearable.

When all was said and done, he worked me. I was crumpled and sloppy. Slobbery and . . .happy! What a pleasant day at the Dr.'s office. Every bit worth it for a flawless smile!

Micah's Wedding

2008-12-16T07:36:00.000-08:00

Micah and Chelsea were married on Saturday, December 13, 2008. What a day to get married! The snow was pounding and the drive was a bit sketchy. Needless to say, a wedding never waits on the weather and by the time they came out of the temple, the snow and wind had stopped just in time for pictures. That was a gift from my mom I think--what bride does not stress about the photo opps? The day was amazing and everything was so exquisitely planned. What a beautiful couple. We are so lucky as a family to welcome and have Chelsea as a part of it. She is such a fun person to be with and she makes my little brother so happy. Here are a few pictures that my Aunt Veronica took--without her and Julie I would be pictureless.

Micah and Chelsea. Don't you love her shawl? And, YES (if your wondering) I did PET the shawl!

Us. I have chopped my hair and have again chopped it shorter since this picture. You only live once. Why not try something new?

Richie and Rubes. Look at her beautiful red curls.

The family outside the Salt Lake Temple

Richie and Julie live in New York. Man do we miss them already!

This is Steven and I with my cute cousin Laurel. She is ready to give birth but only looks about 4 months prego. Good luck Laurel!

This is my Mom's brother Bart (who looks like he could be my Granddad's twin) and my Aunt Judy. I always love to visit with these two and wish we could see each other more often.

The day was simply special. Good luck to the newlyweds. As I look out the window at snow today they are on a beach somewhere in the Bahamas. Just a frigid thought.

Quick Thanksgiving Thoughts

2008-12-15T10:34:00.000-08:00

Sorry, late thanksgiving post this year. Though it was filled with family, love and laughter, there were also many tears to be shed; however, for the most part, Thanksgiving went off without a hitch. We all pitched in together to make a superb Thanksgiving feast. I even did my research and googled some great recipes for heart-healthy Thanksgiving dishes (just for you, dad). My favorite thing was the cauliflower mashed potatoes--absolutely heavenly!!! Steven was really worried that since I do not cook (and never have) I should not make the first meal I ever cooked be on the largest and most important day of feast. Eat your heart out, honey--SUCCESS!

I am most thankful for my mom and her wonderful example. I am thankful for the fun memories I have with her. She was the person I would call if I needed to go someplace--she was up for anything. Though quiet as a mouse in public, my mom never held back when she was around me. We would laugh and talk as if we were teenagers. I would see her daily and talk to her more than that. She was truly one of my best friends. I am thankful for the wonderful person she was and the wonderful family she helped my dad create. I AM THANKFUL FOR HER LIFE.

It is no secret that I have been very upset, bitter, angry, hateful, neglectful, quiet (yes, me being quiet is not ordinary), etc., etc., etc. My feelings have been selfishly based and probably have no merit. Thanksgiving was a time to spend with the people I love and reflect on how lucky we are as a family. I hope that as I start a new year and celebrate the ending of 2008 I will be fortunate enough to understand the ultimate plan for all of us and focus on the important things still present in my life.

I am thankful to have had the chance to spend the Thanksgiving holiday with Steven and his WONDERFUL family; Richie, Jules and Ruby from New York; and, Micah and Chelsea who came from down south. I am especially thankful to have had the opportunity to spend the holiday in the comfort of my father who is an amazing rock of faith for all of us. Love you all!

A Tree of Life

2008-11-19T17:33:00.000-08:00

My dad and I had the opportunity to go to Midway Elementary today, where a tree was planted and dedicated in loving memory of my mother, Susan Wolthuis Williams. I have yet to post a proper tribute to my momma as I am still feeling very raw and emotional. Nothing I could write would tribute my mother the way she deserves. I have page after page of thoughts, memories, descriptions and otherwise that I hold as a treasure inside my own soul. Someday I will share my mother and her memory with the world; until then, I will share with my brothers, family and friends the daily life I am trying to get used to.

The tree planted for my mother

The staff of Midway Elementary, with much help and many donations, planted a Canadian Chokecherry tree in memory of my mother and the legacy she left behind. She was a gifted woman with a talent for teaching children speech therapy. She worked at Midway Elementary for many years. I especially like this picture because of the morning sun that is burning so brightly.

The Children She Left Behind

The morning was more difficult than I anticipated. I thought I would go see a tree and go to work. The most touching part of the morning was when the preschool stood by the tree and sang "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star." Tears ran down my cheeks and soaked my coat. To hear the sweet voices that my mother once taught made me feel her in everything around me. My mom was lucky to have the opportunity to teach these children; these children are very lucky to have had the opportunity to be taught by my mother. It was very hard to grasp that concept.

My Daddy and Me

My dad has been such a strong example to me through all of this. It is hard for me to take my thoughts off of myself and realize that I am not the only one who is broken--my whole family is. He has been someone I can talk to about my mom whenever I want to.

The Rock

Some of the speech students painted this rock that sits at the base of the tree.

The Perfect Spot

I must say that my mom now stakes claim to two beautiful places all her own. I think her grave site is in a perfect location with wonderful scenery (mountains and fields) all around her. This is her very own tree with her very own view of Timpanogos. I love this picture.

We, as a family, were so blessed to be touched by such a wonderful person. She consumes my thoughts and my actions everyday. I hope to someday be the kind of person she always was. Today's tribute by her "school family" was absolutely touching and beautiful in a way I could never describe. She loved what she did and she loved her students. Today, we were able to see that love returned to her. Love you, Momma.

2008-11-06T08:03:00.001-08:00

"What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us. What we have done for others and the world remains and is immortal."--Albert Pike

Micah

2008-10-03T08:07:00.001-07:00

I have this little brother, Micah, who is pretty much one of the luckiest guys in the world. Lucky meaning he wins stuff. This kid can call into any random radio station on any given day and win tickets to the latest concert or a chance to win a car--too bad his luck ran out on the car thing but all the concert tickets have sure helped with date ideas! Well, once again, Micah is a pretty lucky guy. He has proposed to Chelsea and she said yes! Yep, my little brother is getting married! It's kind of a trip to think about him getting married. Micah is five years younger than me, so we never grew up going to school together or knowing many of the same kids. I loved to pick on Micah when we were growing up--let's face it, I was mean. Turns out we discovered how to get along and he has been one of my best friends for a really long time. Congratulations Micah and Chelsea and welcome to the fam, Chelsea (not like you haven't been a part of it since we met you)!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY STEVEN

2008-09-05T12:00:00.000-07:00

Ten years ago (to the date) I went on a date with a guy who would profoundly change my life FOREVER. Today is Steven's 27th birthday--man is he getting old! Since that first date on September 5, 1998, we have become the people we are now and have helped each other grow in so many ways. Never did I think that on that first date we would hold a connection so strong it would see us through college years spent apart and an ultimate happily ever after on our wedding day. Steven is a part of me; so much so that I cannot imagine life before he came into it and I shudder to think of a life without him in it. Happy Birthday Steven! You have accomplished so much and it is exciting to see you keep working toward everything you want to achieve in life. There is never a day you don't make me laugh, make me ponder and make me want to be a better person. I've loved you for a very long time but that still doesn't match the love I gain for you every single day. Happy Birthday. I will say this forever, but for approximately 9 months and 28 days you can be as old and as rich in wisdom as your wife! Love you. . .

I'm a terrible sister--Happy Birthday Richie!

2008-09-04T14:35:00.000-07:00

I need to wish my brother a very belated birthday. His birthday was on August 31. I guess this mistake illustrates a lack of blogger luster on my part; I'm really good at checking blogs but not so good at keeping my blog up-to-date. So, Happy Birthday old man! Don't let the number three get you down. With age comes wisdom--some (meaning you) have too much. Happy Birthday, Richie.

Sweet Ruby Jane

2008-08-10T19:51:00.000-07:00

This is a tutu I just had to give to Ruby so she can start dancing! Needless to say, I overestimated how big she was--it has been 8 months since I've seen her. Mindy and Amber (Sew Sweet) made this tutu and it's a good thing it ties in back! I guess Ruby can wear this for years to come!

We took Ruby on her first trip to Mirror Lake. She loved it. The day was quite overcast and we got a few sprinkles on our heads, but we had tons of fun. Richie and Steven were unable to come. Richie is a busy doctor who had to stay in New York and Steven took a year of Physics in one summer and had a killer final last week. We missed you guys!

Ruby loved the rocking horse that Papa made before I was even born. She gets a little rambunctious and had to be told to be careful or the horse will buck her off.

Much to Julie's horror, Ruby loved Addi. I think Addi just may be Ruby's favorite cousin.

Ruby loved to play the piano with Grandma--she kept saying "my song".

Feeding the ducks in Midway.

Aunt Witty and Uncle Micah with our little jewel, Ruby.

2008-06-26T07:58:00.000-07:00

Two long weeks after the last post and we're still alive. Bear Lake was fun--thank you Lenny and Bonnie! We had a family of owls sharing the same camp site as us--it was really neat to watch them. Here's a funny story. Addi got sick the second night we were there. I am terrified of the dark, so I kept making Steven get up with me when she had to go out to throw up. Steven didn't have any problem falling back to sleep, but I just sat up all night holding Addi, who was shaking so hard because she was so sick. Between trips outside during the night, I heard a loud bang on the top of the camper. Then I heard loud squawking and shrieking. I felt like we were under attack. Turns out the owls had decided to fight that night and it so happens they felt like fighting on top of our camper. Their huge claws were so loud walking up and down the camper that I thought one of them would certainly fall through the roof. Addi was sick again and wanted to go out but I was not going out in the wilderness again with those wild beasts fighting right above my head. I assumed I was the only one who heard the fight because nobody else moved during the fight (which lasted at least 15 minutes). The next morning I was glad to find out that Bonnie also heard the whole thing and was just as scared as I was; the men slept through the entire debacle. Needless to say, the owls I once thought were so cute turned out to be pretty creepy.

The "Hoot's":

Addi's sick (too much "people food"):

Just having fun:

Between mini-vacations, work, school (for Steven), visitors and holding down Susan and Richard's "fort" during their extended visit to New York, it has been a busy summer already! The Fourth of July is one of my favorite holidays--HAPPY 4th OF JULY!!

Don't forget to catch So You Think You Can Dance. When I am reincarnated, I will take my dancing much further than I did in this life--I will be on this show in my next life!

2008-06-11T14:44:00.000-07:00

Well, I guess this will be a brief post. Steven and I are headed to camp in Bear Lake tomorrow--guess I should pack tonight (maybe). Micah and Chelsea will be heading out to camp in Vernal this weekend. Mom and Dad are heading to Milwaukee and then to New York to move my brother's family. We will all be going in different directions this weekend. Everyone pray for good weather and safety.

On another note, I finished the Twilight series. Really good. I am a little disappointed with the quality of editing--especially in book three. Where was Ms. Meyer's editor? So many typos that I would have loved to fix (that stuff bugs me). I was also disappointed with the indecisiveness of Bella between Jacob and Edward. HELLO??? Who wouldn't love to end up with Edward? Anyhow, now when I see someone strange and wonder what they are doing I mentally tag them as "could be vampires". Weird I know, but wouldn't it be fun to be a vampire?

So, to my family--so long, farewell and see you when I see you. Micah--dinner at my house for a couple of weeks (because mom will be neglecting you while she is gone). Mom and Dad happy anniversary while you are away; and, a very happy father's day to the best papa in the world!!

I'm Here

2008-06-03T14:11:00.000-07:00

So, is it me, or is blogging a lot like journal writing? I've been busy. I love, Love, LOVE summer and I'm getting in the mood for bright colorful flowers and the smell of fresh cut grass. Needless to say, the weather has been a roller coaster and it's hard to tell if I can plant flowers without them freezing to death. My mom and dad have gotten into the spirit of fitness so we try to work out a few times a week at the Fit Stop. Chelsea (Micah's special friend) has been here and we've kept her busy as well. Steven, Micah, Chelsea and myself went to dinner and to see What Happens In Vegas on Friday. The four of us also went to the softball field this weekend to see how well we could hit. Micah and Steven know they can hit a softball. Chelsea is good enough to play on Steven's co-ed softball team! I am too, but I can't catch a ball to save my life (or my face for that matter). I am disappointed to say that I have become engrossed in the Twilight series (see my side bar) and am reading New Moon right now, but not fast enough! Right now my life consists of many things including my husband, dog, family, playing outside and reading. I will try to do better at the blog thing, but for every one's peace of mind, I'm still alive!!!

Tagged

2008-05-12T11:26:00.000-07:00

Sorry it took so long to post--I've been tagged for like a week! This is me (Whitney) asking Steven the questions. . .

Names:
Steven and Whitney Whitney and Addi

How long have you been together/how long did you date?
8 years--the first two years we dated in high school; we broke up for two years in college; dated again for two years; and, finally, married for almost four.

How old are you?
Right now we are both 26. Whitney is 2 months and 2 days older so she is an "older woman" for that amount of time. I give her a hard time about that!

Who eats more?
Look at Whitney and tell me who eats more--I do.

Who said I love you first?
We both admitted that at the same time during a conversation we were having.

Who's taller?
I am 6'3; Whitney is 5'8

Who's smarter?
We are both very smart in different things. Whitney can express her thoughts on paper write like a pro--she has an excellent portfolio; I know quite a bit about the body and how it's supposed to work.

Who does laundry?
Whitney--she won't let me touch the laundry.

Who cooks?
I do. Whitney can't cook (trust me).

Who pays bills?
Whitney

Who mows the lawn?
The small amount we actually have is mowed once in awhile by both of us.

Who does the dishes?
I do the majority of the dishes, sometimes Whitney will get her hands wet.

Who drives when your together?
Steven--we took drivers ed together but Whitney didn't learn how to drive in that class. I think she needs to retake the class.

Who's more stubborn?
Whitney--spoiled by her father and gets EVERYTHING she thinks she needs or wants.

Who kissed who first?
It took a long time. Whitney figured we were just friends at that point, but I finally landed one on her. Needless to say, it wasn't a first date kiss or even a second date kiss for that matter--we're talking probably a month.

Who asked who out first?
I asked Whitney out first on my 17th birthday. I don't think she wanted to go because her dad kept lying for her and saying she wasn't home. I caught her and we ended up having a really fun time.

Who proposed?
I did.

Who has more siblings?
Whitney has two brothers, I have one sister.

Who wears the pants in the family?
We both do. Shouldn't that be how it is?

This is Whitney again ...I double tag Julie (you were tagged by Veronica too). I know she has been gone and thus absent from blogging for a while, but I am very interested in finding some things out about my brother and sister-in-law.

Back To The Task . . .

2008-04-28T20:06:00.000-07:00

We are back from our vacation and are seriously wondering if we shouldn't have just disappeared forever. We talked about taking off to South America, but we couldn't survive. . .so we are back to the task at hand--making a living.

We had a ton of adventures which I choose not to bore all those reading with because, let's face it, sometimes other's vacations mean nothing to anyone else. We played golf in Cedar City with Micah and Chelsea (and a few thousand groundhogs--think Caddy Shack). We hiked a total of 23 miles in the beautiful Snow Canyon and walked several more around town. We ate at wonderful places, shopped and got tons of sun. But the best part of the whole vacation was that I got to spend all my time with my husband and our best friend, Addi. I wish everyday could be a vacation!

2008-04-21T09:08:00.000-07:00

Steven, Addi and I are leaving for St. George tomorrow after work. We can hardly wait! Steven only has a small window of opportunity to go on vacation this year, so we are taking advantage and going someplace warm to defrost from the long, cold winter. I will miss Jackson Hole this year. That has been our default vacation my entire life. The snow in Yellowstone hasn't melted yet and the park isn't open, so I'm not sure it would totally be worth going anyway. This will be one cheap vacation filled with hiking and sitting outside in the sun. We'll have a good time hiking with our pooch in St. George--she loves going. Sorry, Mom and Dad for not letting her have a slumber party at your house for the week (we know you were hoping we would change our minds)! Micah and Chelsea: be prepared to get your butts kicked in our golf game! I'm really not good at all--I like to talk a big game. Fun in the sun, here we come!

Officially FREAKED OUT!

2008-04-10T13:03:00.000-07:00

So, last night we redboxed it (wonderful concept). "I Am Legend" is the most disturbing movie I have watched in a long time. I am afraid of the end of the world and I am afraid of natural disasters hurting my loved ones. After watching this movie I was very disturbed. Here is my conclusion:
FIRST: I think mankind could ultimately destroy itself because we have become so advanced and educated that it would be hard not to destroy ourselves with some sort of outbreak or virus.
SECOND: I sat and watched thinking, "oh my gosh, I am so not prepared for a major disaster (much less the end of the world)!" I have zero food storage because I have no gumption to do it or space to store it; and, let's face it, we're poor right now.
THIRD: The most disturbing part of the entire movie (and for those of you who have seen it will know exactly what I am talking about) is the dog attack. Could it be any more graphic to watch the faithful pal and best friend of one of the last men on earth get mauled by a pack of rabid dogs and get infected as well? I'll be blunt, I sobbed--for like 10 minutes (not kidding).

It's a scary thought that someday this could be us. I will never watch that movie again, much less buy it. I do know one thing though, I am definitely going to start preparing now for what might come some day.

Bowling Night

2008-04-06T09:55:00.000-07:00

Micah came home this weekend and brought a special friend named Chelsea with him. Because our choices of Saturday night activities are limited in a small town, we strapped on our bowling shoes and made a night of it at Holiday Lanes!

Steven won both games (because he is the competitive type) but my dad and Micah gave him a run for the title of champion! I can't believe how good my dad is--he took classes in college.

Chelsea did really good after a few pointers from Richard. She lost the first game and I lost the second. In my book though, losers the winner!

We all had a really great time. The bowling was good, the company was great and the competition wasn't too ruthless. Chelsea is a really fun girl and it was great to finally meet her. Micah towers over her because he is a gentle giant, but good things must come in small packages! Come again, Chelsea--maybe you can work on the power behind your bowling ball. As for me, I just love the time we can all spend together being dorks and laughing about it the WHOLE time!

Goodbye My Bestfriend

2008-03-29T17:07:00.000-07:00

My best friend for lots and lots of years came this week from Arizona. She moved to Arizona about a month ago and had to go back today. No matter what is happening in life, we have always kept in touch. It seems like we talk now more that she lives far away than we did when she lived in Utah. We've been through a lot together over the years and it was really fun to see her. I miss ya, Miss. This week I was able to see her quite a bit. We had fun catching up. It was a bit cold this week, but she kept wanting to have bon fires in her mom's backyard--needless to say, we did it. Her little boy, Makon, will be two this week. Happy Birthday, Mak! I can't believe it has been two years. I'm really proud of Missy for knowing she needed to make a change and move far away from all those she loves. She is doing so good and I think the move was the best idea she's had. I'm not sure when she'll be back, but I know it will be soon. I'm going to set up a blog for her so all her friends and family here can see how much Makon is growing and she can keep us updated on how she is doing. She is the person with the biggest heart and would give anyone the shirt off her back if they needed it. Thanks, Miss, for being there and being such an awesome friend!

Texas Hold 'Em

2008-03-23T11:15:00.000-07:00

So, we went to a bbq at Preston and Amber's house yesterday night. It was tons of fun! After dinner, we broke out the poker tokens and played Texas Hold Em forever. Hey guys--remember the really big bet I made when I was throwing in all my blacks and reds because I knew I had a really good hand? I got a full house (three 3s and two 8s) and Morgan got a flush? Well, when Mindy said Morgan won that hand I figured it was a good time for me to call it quits and go home for the night (it was midnight). Truth is, I WON!!! I can't believe I split the pot with her! She was almost out of chips until she inherited my huge pile from that hand(that pile obviously should have stuck with me in the first place). Anyway, Steven and I found a really good website that gives all explanations and ranking of card hands. Mindy, I'll make a copy for you so nobody else has to split a pot that should have actually been theirs all along! Just kidding--it was tons of fun and we'll definitely be there again! Thanks for teaching me how to play-Morgan and I must have had a brush of beginners luck to be the last two in the game anyway!

And The Winner Is . . .!!!

2008-03-20T14:38:00.000-07:00

Well, in all reality, Richie for matching with his number one choice. But for my little guessing game, the winner turned out to be a three-way tie. Julie--bless your heart--I LOVE knowing secrets before my parents. I didn't have to call Jules, she called me long before Richie was able to get off work to call my parents with his news! So, Richie and his cute family will be going to his top choice--Rochester, New York, for orthopedics (the job he really wanted)!!! CoNgRaTuLaTiOnS, RiChIe!!! No more Brewers games for us--oh the hot dogs and wienie races! Milwaukee is a wonderful place I wouldn't actually mind living. Now we will have a new vacation destination! Rochester is close to historic church sites and looks absolutely beautiful in pictures. Good luck with the move, guys.

Family Wager

2008-03-19T12:26:00.000-07:00

So here's some new news (it's been a while since my last post)--Richie got the confirmation email that he has matched somewhere. For all medical professionals this is a great thing to hear. He finds out tomorrow where he will be employed next. I know Richie has spent many of the winter months flying all over the country for interviews to get residency. He has been to Rochester, NY; Morgantown, WV; Detroit, MI; Tuscon, AZ; Hershey, PA; Milwaukee, WI; Seattle, WA; Portland, OR; Loma Linda, CA; Denver, CO (two times); Albuquerque, NM; and, Omaha, NE. I have started a little bet with my family. Whoever guesses the closest will get something (prize to be determined). Those of you who may want to join in, post a comment . . .

Dad: Rochester, NY--Orthopedics
Mom: Detroit, MI--Orthopedics
Whitney: Portland, OR--general (I'm just hopin' they'll move closer to us--I know I won't win) or Rochester, NY--Ortho
Micah: Rochester, NY or Tuscon, AZ both orthopedics
Steven: Hershey, PA--orthopedics or Denver,CO--general surgery
Julie: Miluakee, WI in orthopedics

GoOd LuCk, RiChIe!!!

My baby is six today

2008-03-07T15:08:00.000-08:00

So, I think my side of the family is almost done with birthdays for a while. Today is a very sad day for me because my Addi turns six. I have had my dog for six years! At about six-months-old the vet told us Addi had hip displasia (just like my momma). I have always been a faithful walker with her to keep her fit and in peak condition. On August 22, 2007, Addi had to have double knee surgery to fix her knees that overcompensated for her hips her whole life. She has recovered beautifully and I must say it was the best decision I could have ever made. Addi has had food allergies since she was a baby as well. Micah says her special prescription food costs more than caviar. After her knee surgery, Addi has had to have a couple more surgeries. Addi comes with much love attached to her. Despite what it sounds like, she is a happy little dog and she is doing better than ever! Addi is part of not only Steven's and my little family, but also my side of the family as well as Steven's side of the family. She is a sweet, sweet girl whom everybody loves. Happy birthday little girl! Oh, and Mindy--thanks for the fun birthday party with Allie and Acer!

Happy Birthday, Micah!

2008-03-06T12:46:00.000-08:00

Micah is my baby brother and today is his birthday! He's a whoppin' 22-years-old today. I love this picture of him taken on his mission in Portugal. I can't decide if he is trying to impersonate a rabbi or just pimpin' Portuguese style. Micah is single and VERY available (Laurel--you know some cuties in North Ogden). He is the funnest kid to be around. I was very upset when he was born because he wasn't a little sister, but now I wouldn't have it any other way! Happy Birthday little brother--thanks for being such a good friend and an awesome brother.

Meet my husband, Steven

2008-03-04T17:36:00.000-08:00

So this is my husband, Steven. He has been my very best friend for a really LONG time. Steven is working at the Fit Stop with Alan Bluth as a physical therapy assistant. At one point he was going to be a physician assistant, but now he loves what he is doing and will be going back to school to be a physical therapist. I am happy about this because he has always been into the human body and keeping it healthy--he is very smart at what he does and will be a wonderful physical therapist! Steven has been a sports fanatic forever. This has been good for me. Now, I am up for anything Steven throws my way and I have learned to make all the competition fun. Steven has the biggest heart of anyone I have ever met. We never have dull moments when we are together and we always seem to be laughing and joking with each other. Love ya, Steven!

Vacation, Anyone?

2008-03-03T13:01:00.000-08:00

Okay, so here's the dilemma. . .Steven and I want to go on a trip. Doesn't sound so bad yet, does it? Every year we are invited by either my side of the fam or his side of the fam (or both) to go with them--this year is different. We are going to go by ourselves. I want to go to my all time favorite place (besides Italy, which face it, is too expensive)Jackson Hole. Summer rates are ridiculous! We want to go somewhere we can take Addi because we love the outdoors and hiking. Steven has researched the Redwoods in northern Cal and Shasta Mountain. Has anyone been to a great outdoorsy place that we should know about? Trip planning is not my thing. Road trippin' is the word. If you have been on any great road trips to Washington, Oregon, Colorado or anywhere West Coastish let me know where you went and where you stayed.

Happy Birthday Mom!

2008-03-01T16:23:00.000-08:00

I Love This Place!

2008-02-25T07:29:00.000-08:00

LOVE YOUR PET BOUTIQUE & BAKERY

If you are dog lovers like us, this is one pet boutique you should visit. We recently decided that we would customize a collar for Addi's birthday (on March 7) and we love this place. You tell Doug and Valerie exactly what you want and a week later your collar is finished and perfect!! I absolutely love this place. If you are ever in Park City, venture to Main Street and it is toward the bottom of the street. Here is a glimpse of Addi's special birthday gift. This is green leather covered with Austrian crystals. Halle Berry has been known to get her furry friend a collar from Love Your Pet--if you choose to visit, ask to see the "HB" collar. It is not as cute as Addi's special collar, but close.

Happy Birthday, Jules!

2008-02-16T14:07:00.000-08:00

Happy Birthday to you, Julie! Hope your day is great and that you guys can get out and do something for fun.

Ruby Jane

2008-02-16T11:46:00.000-08:00

Meet my neice, Ruby Jane Williams. She is the most beautiful baby in the world! I had to steal this picture off my sister-in-law's blog because it was just too cute. Ruby currently lives with her mom and dad (my brother) in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. I wish she lived closer so we can watch her grow up. Julie has been blogging for quite some time as a resolution to the distance thing. Thanks for all the cute pictures, Jules! Hope your staying warm in Wisconsin.

HAPPY VALENTINES TO EVERYONE I LOVE BEST!

2008-02-14T10:38:00.000-08:00

Happy Valentines Day to Micah who is celebrating "Single Awareness Day". Here's to a Valentine's day on your own (even though you know you are never really on your own!).

Happy Valentines Day to my cute, CUTE husband and my Precious Addi Marie!
Happy Valentines Day to Dad, Mom, Julie, Ruby and Richie--I miss you guys in Wisconsin. Give Ruby a Valentine kiss from her Aunt Witty. Thanks, Mom and Dad, for everything you do for me.
Happy Valentines day VerDawn, Bonnie and Lenny. You do a lot for us also!
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY, Steven--

I love you more than I can express. Thank you for everything you have ever given me and all the love you never fail to show me. You are my heart and soul and my very best friend. You are working so hard toward where you want to be, I only hope you know I support every choice you have to make. Thank you for being the kind of person I hope that someday I can be! I LOVE YOU THE MOST(est).

Happy Birthday, Daddy!!

2008-02-13T07:00:00.000-08:00

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY PAPA!!! My dad is the greatest dad ever. It's his birthday today. He is not old--just wise beyond his years. He has had silver hair for a very LONG time, but I think that makes some men look distinguished. My dad . . .the wildlife enthusiast (hence his profession), a loving husband to my momma, a dad, and a grandpa to Ruby and my dog, Addi. Don't forget: one of my best friends--I can't put into words what you mean to us, dad. Thankyou for your patience, your example and your guidance when the going gets tough. I am a daddy's girl forever. He was one who always had my back and whom I could talk into anything (just ask my mom!).
So, Happy Birthday dad! And here's to many, MANY more. Your the greatest. Just wanted to send a birthday shout out to you on your very special day before Valentines Day.
Love,
Poot

P.S.
You should really consider smiling more in pictures (he refuses to smile in pictures)!

I have been tagged (thanks Amber!)

2008-02-06T18:37:00.000-08:00

Well, as I have been reading some of your tags, I am becoming aware at how alike many of us are. My habits and random weirdnesses may seem a bit redundant, but here we go. . .

1. Air conditioning on my skin makes me nautious. Steven loves to blast the AC and it makes me feel like I am going to spew everywhere. I have learned to carry a jacket with me even in the middle of the summer. I also sit by a space heater at work year round.

2. I get claustrophobic in many different circumstances. At the dinner table I have to have my own little "bubble". Once again, if a tablecloth touches my legs I get nautious.

3 Steven and I treat out dog like a child. I know many of you do--but I'm not sure it is to our extent. Addi sleeps straight down the middle of the bed. She shares my pillow and MUST be under the covers for a good night sleep. She has a stuffed gorilla named Scooter who she takes to bed (by herself) and also gets out of bed (by herself) every morning. So Scooter also sleeps with us too. She has also had many surgeries tat have people wondering if they would actually go to the extent with their dogs that I do with mine. How could you not?

4. I must have my clothes folded a certain way. My hangers must be green and my clothes must also face the same direction in the closet going from sleeveless to short sleeved to mid-sleeved to long sleeved. Steven, bless his kind heart, has tried to throw me off a couple of times with a wrong color of hanger or a shirt facing the wrong direction--I catch it every time. I am very particular on how my closet looks except for all of my shoes--those are a freaking mess that I cannot solve until I get my own house with shoe cubbies!!

5. Steven and I have been married for three years now and I have cooked five times the whole marriage. No really--we've counted. Vegetables are my favorite food. Give me some carrots and celery and I could survive! Steven says I would rather starve than cook or go grocery shopping. Why spend money on food when you can go shopping for cute clothes instead?

6. Toilets scare me. I think I'm afraid of a snake crawling out to get me. I've heard stories like that. I do my business as quickly as possible and avoid public restrooms at all costs. If it's an emergency--squat (it's good for your quads anyway)!

7. I hate grape flavored anything. Here's a little history. . .
Steven hates cherry flavored anything and I love Cherry. I hate grape and that is Steven's favorite flavor. I think this is because when I was a kid I was given grape flavored cough medicine when I was sick. Funny thing is, Steven was given cherry flavored cough medicine as a kid. We both believe that is why we hate those flavors. Has this happened to anyone else?

8. I hate swimming. This stems back to number 1 on my list. Swimming pool water makes my stomach hurt because it's cold on my skin. I also think this has something to do with my first swimming lesson when I was three years old (sorry momma). My mom was instructed to chuck me off a diving board into the water. I made it sound terrible on purpose, but I can still remember this vividly. I do not enjoy swimming at all.

9. I cleared an ocean full of people swimming and surfing in Malibu. Steven was body surfing in the ocean in Malibu. I am deathly afraid of being killed by a shark so I was watching Steven from the beach and kept seeing a large fin circling in the ocean. I was not the only person who saw this; I pointed it out to Steven's mom a couple of times. When it got really close to Steven I panicked and ran out and said, "Steven, get out! There's a shark!" I probably looked rediculous because I was waving my arms and screaming "Shark". The whole ocean of swimmers cleared out in a matter of seconds. It's kind of funny now!

10. I have a dog that smiles. No really. Addi smiles at people she really likes. I will have to get a picture sometime. No one believes she does this until she smiles at them. (Kind of stupid, but I am out of ideas)

Hey Richie!!

2008-02-03T14:34:00.000-08:00

This one is for my brother, Richie, who is in Wisconsin. Obviously the powder is great here. I'm sure you are missing some excellent skiing!! We had to shovel our roof today because our door was hitting into our overhang. We took Addi for a four mile walk in the snow. Just wanted to show you how tuckered out that made her. Love you guys in Wisconsin!!